Same. I thought I was just the biggest movie buff until I came here. Here I'm practically.a casual viewer, even when I used to watch at my greatest pace. Definitely got an education reading everyone's posts, and reviews.
TBPH ignorance is bliss lol! I don't know movies as well as some here, but I have more fun. Being easy to please isnt a weakness nor a sign of idiocy. A healthy mind able to see the good in things where the jaded one scoffs, and discredits to their own prideful dissatisfaction. Only one finds contentment and serenity.*
A great majority of this forum isnt like those that think they're better than anyone. You go to places like that and they come alive when they can critique or berate someone. It's the only time they feel worthwhile.
I do relate to this post overall, but I didn’t quite mean that (that I thought I was the biggest movie buff). I’ve always looked for something really specific in books and films — so to me much of the experience is about whether they conform to what I’m looking for. I was always relatively conscious of that, and while it sounds really reductive, I don’t think it is necessarily. To me over the years it’s been a case of ‘do I dig this film’s/show’s worldview?’. I make no claim to be passing an objective judgment.
In this way, I’m not ‘easy’ or ‘hard’ to please as such, but I often feel the nagging disappointment from the various storytelling cliches that abound even in relatively ‘niche’ films, but that’s just my personal reaction. It doesn’t mean I love all films any less. I believe Minio(?) had a thread a few months ago about loving all films, finding something to like in even the basest of romantic comedies. That’s kind of how I feel. Every single film makes me think, and I do actually spend 20 hours out of my 24 thinking about art, film, narratives. Not super-healthy, but it means any random Netflix thriller will give me food for thought and stay on my mind. I can see how someone might define that kind of love for cinema as cinephilia.
I do enjoy reading essays on film and everyone’s thoughts and reviews here, and when I watch anything, I very much critique it from the get-go despite myself, see who borrowed from whom, etc. And again, I do agree with Minio that it’s probably a good idea to see as much as possible and live this every day, watch something that will challenge me instead of something I’m reasonably sure that I will like. I do do this. Maybe I do this so I could come across something else that speaks to me personally, to my worldview, really deeply. And while I’m on the lookout for these films, I may as well check out everything else out there.
But I think I look for something really specific from films, whereas cinephiles proper just appreciate film as an art form. And I admire that, but that’s not what I’m looking for at all.
I guess I’m a subjectivist at heart? I do think only my experience matters (when it comes to experiencing art for sure). I don’t much care for authorial intent, or allegories, or any of that. When I was younger, I would painstakingly read up on everything to see what this or that filmmaker was thinking when making the movie. I still do this for the most part, but it no longer informs my experience that much; I’ve gone full Death of the Author. Intuitively, I feel like that makes me less of a cinephile because I’m wilfully ignoring authorial intent, what is being said, why it’s being said. But I don’t mean this in a ridiculous ‘fan theories’-type way, I just focus on things in the narrative/execution that interest me, matter to me, first and foremost. Everything else comes second.
In terms of looking down on people with less discerning habits, this can definitely verge on the ridiculous, but I also think it’s irrational to criticise people who look down on others too much, because we all do this in one way or another. So it’s human. My mother adores the Italian Nero Wolfe adaptation TV show:
https://m.imdb.com/title/tt2164423/
She’d watch it all day long on repeat if she could. Do I make fun of her for that? Sure. It doesn’t mean I look down on her, I don’t even look down on the actual stuff she watches, it’s just interesting that this appeals. She used to be into Buñuel, Lynch, Bertolucci — that kind of thing (I’m not saying they are ‘better’, it’s just a different kind of cinema that has a broader existential focus). Then again, she would always notice people’s clothes, hair. I used to work in fashion, for my sins, but never cared about this in film. I find this interest in costumes really basic, feel like it misses the bigger picture. I think we’re all cinephiles compared to someone else. Not sure what it even does to compare. It’s a conscious choice to explore an art form deeper or not; it’s even a conscious choice to say, ‘Actually, I think I’ve gone deep enough, I’ll go back to murder mysteries now, thanks.’ And that’s perfectly fine, I think.